Saying Good-bye is Never Easy

We’ve sold our home in Conway (Praise the Lord) and recently put a contract on a home in Bossier City, Louisiana. We will be moving in just a few short weeks. And the good byes I find myself in the middle of are harder every day.

The church choir I’ve played piano for the last three years gave me a nice send-off tonight. I have some wonderful friends who I’ve cried with, laughed with, and sung with. It’s hard to say good-bye to long-term friends as we move.

But it reminds me of good-byes that we sometimes have to deal with in stepfamilies. Good-byes that are not our choice but are driven by someone else’s decisions.

In her book, The Stepfamily Survival Guide, Natalie Nichols Gillespie talks about some difficult good-byes her family has endured with her stepdaughter, Lorra. “Lorra has chosen as an adult not to continue her relationship with her father and me for now, and Adam and I have sobbed on many occasions over her decision. The family all know that I have had nightmares on multiple occasions that one of my stepdaughters is getting married and I am standing outside watching through the windows because I am not allowed inside the church!”

That’s a difficult good-bye. But Natalie Gillespie can’t change the decision her step-daughter has made. She can simply pray that she will have a change of heart someday.

Good-byes are never easy. But with God’s sustaining strength, we can endure them.

“I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” (Phil 4:13)

Related Posts:

Stepparenting Heartache

Stepparenting Heartache Part Two

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