I’m recovering from a stomach virus today and I’ve noticed I need more rest and a break in my schedule to make it through the day. I skipped my 6 AM Thursday prayer group to catch an extra hour of sleep. I also changed my usual routine to allow more time at home for rest and self-care. My eating still consists of crackers and Gatorade but I’m cautiously adding a few more items to my diet.
If we take extra care of ourselves when we get physically sick, should we treat ourselves differently when we get emotionally sick of stepparenting? If you’ve been a stepparent long, you’ve probably had those days when you’re sick of the stepparenting routine. You know the routine I’m referring to: mundane parenting tasks without regard as a parent, constant responsibility for your stepchildren with very few rights, and continuous energy toward doing the right thing with little or no appreciation.
If you’re suffering from the “sick of stepparenting” routine, maybe you need extra time for self-care. Go for a walk. Have lunch with a friend. Schedule a massage. Plan a week-end away with your spouse. Take a break from your regular routine and do something nice for yourself.
Stepparenting can be a demanding role. As stepparents, we need to decide when it’s time to take a break from the routine to refill our reservoir, enabling us to continue down the stepparenting journey again.
Do you need a break today? Do you need a week-end away from the routine? Take it! As a stepparent, you deserve it.